Handfasting

Online Only

Handfasting Virtual

In-Person Handfasting, BBQ, and After Party

The Reggio & Humes Family Residence

Backyard Barbecue

After Party

Our Wedding

Barbie met Jess in the summer of 2022, and instantly felt a connection, but it took a few weeks for them to work up the courage to ask for Jess' cell phone number.In the meantime, Jess thought Barbie was gorgeous, but didn't know how to tell them.Barbie solved their dilemma by asking Jess' then-wife for her number.The following Thursday, they went on their first date to a local museum's art exhibition. They were fast friends and knew their love was special.Jess moved in with Barbie and their family in March of 2023.I'd like to say it's been smooth sailing since then, but Barbie and Jess have had to work through a cross-country move, a divorce, and polyamorous dynamics which sometimes worked against them.Now, we celebrate their renewed commitment to each other, as they have chosen to have a hand fasting and tie the knot as a symbol of their love.

A Non-Traditional Love Story

Our Story

Photos

Wedding Party

Please wear your favorite fancy yet comfortable clothing. This will be a backyard barbecue, and flats, wedges, sneakers, and boots for footwear are most appropriate.(Please, no stilettos to irrigate the lawn!)

Bring your own lawn chair, hammock chair, or picnic blanket if you are local. We will have some chairs for guests visiting from out of town.

Dress Code

Q + A

Please use the following link to book in our room block: <a href="https://www.choicehotels.com/reservations/groups/LM53H4" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.choicehotels.com/reservations/groups/LM53H4</a> BY PHONE&nbsp;Guests can call the front desk by dialing&nbsp;(253) 288-1916 and asking to be booked with the "The Knot - 8.19.26 thru 8.24.26” block.&nbsp;&nbsp; THE LAST DAY TO BOOK YOUR DISCOUNTED RATE IS JULY 20TH, 2026 / MONDAY

Barbie & Jess

Barbie & Jess

B&J

Handfasting Virtual

In-Person Handfasting, BBQ, and After Party

3:00 PM–4:00 PM

Handfasting

4:00 PM–7:00 PM

Backyard Barbecue

7:00 PM–10:00 PM

After Party